diff --git a/Quake/cl_main.c b/Quake/cl_main.c
index d7484e1e..5dfd7605 100644
--- a/Quake/cl_main.c
+++ b/Quake/cl_main.c
@@ -133,11 +133,6 @@ void CL_Disconnect (void)
 		cls.state = ca_disconnected;
 		if (sv.active)
 			Host_ShutdownServer(false);
-		if (cls.state != ca_dedicated && key_dest != key_menu)
-		{
-			key_dest = key_console;
-			IN_Deactivate(vid.type == MODE_WINDOWED);
-		}
 	}
 
 	cls.demoplayback = cls.timedemo = false;
@@ -150,11 +145,6 @@ void CL_Disconnect_f (void)
 	CL_Disconnect ();
 	if (sv.active)
 		Host_ShutdownServer (false);
-	if (cls.state != ca_dedicated && key_dest != key_menu)
-	{
-		key_dest = key_console;
-		IN_Deactivate(vid.type == MODE_WINDOWED);
-	}
 }
 
 
diff --git a/Quake/gl_vidsdl.c b/Quake/gl_vidsdl.c
index eaec8975..0d962b03 100644
--- a/Quake/gl_vidsdl.c
+++ b/Quake/gl_vidsdl.c
@@ -411,7 +411,9 @@ static void VID_Restart (void)
 	Cvar_SetValueQuick (&vid_height, modelist[vid_default].height);
 	Cvar_SetValueQuick (&vid_bpp, modelist[vid_default].bpp);
 	Cvar_SetQuick (&vid_fullscreen, (windowed) ? "0" : "1");
-
+//
+// update mouse grab
+//
 	if (vid_fullscreen.value)
 		IN_Activate();
 	else if (key_dest == key_console || key_dest == key_menu)
@@ -1351,6 +1353,7 @@ void	VID_Toggle (void)
 		Cvar_SetQuick (&vid_fullscreen, vid_fullscreen.value ? "0" : "1");
 		vid_changed = was_changed;
 
+		// update mouse grab
 		if (vid_fullscreen.value)
 			IN_Activate();
 		else if (key_dest == key_console || key_dest == key_menu)
@@ -1712,15 +1715,10 @@ static void VID_MenuKey (int key)
 			Cbuf_AddText ("vid_test\n");
 			break;
 		case 6:
-			m_state = m_none;
 			Cbuf_AddText ("vid_restart\n");
-			if (cls.state == ca_connected)
-			{
-				key_dest = key_game;
-				IN_Activate();
-			}
-			else
-				key_dest = key_console;
+			key_dest = key_game;
+			m_state = m_none;
+			IN_Activate();
 			break;
 		default:
 			break;
@@ -1802,6 +1800,7 @@ VID_Menu_f
 */
 static void VID_Menu_f (void)
 {
+	IN_Deactivate(vid.type == MODE_WINDOWED);
 	key_dest = key_menu;
 	m_state = m_video;
 	m_entersound = true;
diff --git a/Quake/in_sdl.c b/Quake/in_sdl.c
index 1111c85c..79777f33 100644
--- a/Quake/in_sdl.c
+++ b/Quake/in_sdl.c
@@ -210,7 +210,8 @@ void IN_Deactivate (qboolean free_cursor)
 
 void IN_Init (void)
 {
-	prev_gamekey = (key_dest == key_game || m_keys_bind_grab);
+	prev_gamekey = ((key_dest == key_game && !con_forcedup) ||
+	                (key_dest == key_menu && m_state == m_keys && m_keys_bind_grab));
 	SDL_EnableUNICODE (!prev_gamekey);
 	if (SDL_EnableKeyRepeat(SDL_DEFAULT_REPEAT_DELAY, SDL_DEFAULT_REPEAT_INTERVAL) == -1)
 		Con_Printf("Warning: SDL_EnableKeyRepeat() failed.\n");
@@ -306,7 +307,8 @@ void IN_SendKeyEvents (void)
 	int sym, usym, state, modstate;
 	qboolean gamekey;
 
-	gamekey = (key_dest == key_game || m_keys_bind_grab);
+	gamekey = ((key_dest == key_game && !con_forcedup) ||
+	           (key_dest == key_menu && m_state == m_keys && m_keys_bind_grab));
 	if (gamekey != prev_gamekey)
 	{
 		prev_gamekey = gamekey;
diff --git a/Quake/menu.c b/Quake/menu.c
index 9c3af2f4..df5224e9 100644
--- a/Quake/menu.c
+++ b/Quake/menu.c
@@ -217,13 +217,8 @@ void M_ToggleMenu_f (void)
 			return;
 		}
 
-		if (cls.state == ca_connected)
-		{
-			IN_Activate();
-			key_dest = key_game;
-		}
-		else
-			key_dest = key_console;
+		IN_Activate();
+		key_dest = key_game;
 		m_state = m_none;
 		return;
 	}
@@ -280,13 +275,8 @@ void M_Main_Key (int key)
 	switch (key)
 	{
 	case K_ESCAPE:
-		if (cls.state == ca_connected)
-		{
-			IN_Activate();
-			key_dest = key_game;
-		}
-		else
-			key_dest = key_console;
+		IN_Activate();
+		key_dest = key_game;
 		m_state = m_none;
 		cls.demonum = m_save_demonum;
 		if (!fitzmode)	/* QuakeSpasm customization: */
diff --git a/Quake/net_dgrm.c b/Quake/net_dgrm.c
index b573db8d..a2eb7055 100644
--- a/Quake/net_dgrm.c
+++ b/Quake/net_dgrm.c
@@ -1399,6 +1399,7 @@ ErrorReturn2:
 	dfunc.Close_Socket(newsock);
 	if (m_return_onerror)
 	{
+		IN_Deactivate(vid.type == MODE_WINDOWED);
 		key_dest = key_menu;
 		m_state = m_return_state;
 		m_return_onerror = false;